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Are There Really Only Two Roads?

October 24, 2017

"Two roads diverged in a yellow wood..." famous words of Robert Frost, but the question is... are there really only two roads? In life are there ever just two roads? We make decisions everyday but rarely are there only two options. There are always the two options of action verses in action but what about what action to make. Making decisions is hard, especially when you are stuck in a rut of wrong decisions. There are times when it seems like all we make is wrong decision after wrong decision, but when and how can one get back on the good decision track?

There are points in life when it seems that no matter what we do we always seem to mess up. We make some sort of mistake, make the wrong decision, hurt someone we care about and it seems like we can't make it right. Sometime all it takes to correct is simply asking for help. Ultimately we can't do everything alone and especially when looking from the inside out sometimes we will miss the obvious solutions. Situations in life are not just unique to our life, there is someone else that has also gone through something similar to the problem you face. Sometimes it takes humility to reach out to that person and ask for help. With that there then becomes a responsibility to evaluate not only what we will do in the future but also what we have done in the past. If we make sure to evaluate our previous actions we can avoid making the same mistakes again.

Life is full of difficult moments but how we move forward and the decisions we make will make all the difference.

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